tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post8144270175317681536..comments2023-10-17T06:44:25.479-07:00Comments on Mormon, Mother and Marriage & Family Therapist: PMDDLaurenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08138706004276612914noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-3008735591304356342020-11-19T17:14:12.764-08:002020-11-19T17:14:12.764-08:00Hello everyone!! I'm Marilyn Here in the State...Hello everyone!! I'm Marilyn Here in the States and I'm here to talk about what Dr. James did for me. I have been suffering from (GENITAL HERPES VIRUS) disease for the past 4 years and had constant pain and itching, especially in my private part. During the first year. This disease started circulating all over my body and I have used Oregano oil, Coconut oil, Acyclovir, Val acyclovir, Acyclovir, and some other products and it really helped during my outbreaks but I totally got cured! 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Testicular Cancer, LEUKEMIA, VIRUSES, HEPATITIS, INFERTILITY., etc. you can contact the great one directly on his........@ drjamesherbalmix@gmail.com He is a good man, and He will help you. Marilyn Navarrohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14397272981313698387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-70262814748337631112016-06-21T09:34:53.390-07:002016-06-21T09:34:53.390-07:00I was just diagnosed this a few months ago. It was...I was just diagnosed this a few months ago. It was completely debilitating. Note that I take the medicine. I'm myself all 4 weeks instead of just 2 good weeks and 2 crazy weeks. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-41968074051909712752015-03-16T23:52:04.294-07:002015-03-16T23:52:04.294-07:00I have many of the comments. I feel like of off PM...I have many of the comments. I feel like of off PMDD sufferers we are sisters.<br />Well I could not say for sure for how long I suffered from PMDD maybe my teenage years? But it sure got lot worse after having my kids.<br /><br />I must disagree with theory of mental illness and hormonal. I have been following a Dr. That cures PMDD ,he lives in Chile and his name is Dr.Jorge Lolas , he affirms the main issue : the inflammation of the Cervix(uterus) he injects straight to the uterus antibiotic and antiflamatories and also could do surgery to remove tissues around. Once he gets a healthy uterus to the patients, these are cured. There are so many testimonies of this. Be sure I will be in line to go and see him. All the best to all of youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-10872730427709354592014-05-15T11:04:52.015-07:002014-05-15T11:04:52.015-07:00It is great to find others dealing with these thin...It is great to find others dealing with these things. I noticed mine started 7 months after the birth of my daughter. I thought it was postpartum depression but thought it was a little strange for it to come so late. Your story sounds identical to mine. Valerienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-12649903809087690702013-07-23T08:48:09.158-07:002013-07-23T08:48:09.158-07:00I am so glad there is an LDS forum on this disorde...I am so glad there is an LDS forum on this disorder. Struggling or not, you have stumbled on a need for many of us. As LDS women we suffer alone often because we feel a need to be "perfect", although the tenants of our faith say to "strive for perfection". Also, out on the web there are many forums, but people's language and harshness seem counter-intuitive to the Spirit. I have been looking into finding an LDS exclusive place to share where we can be honest, but not necessarily using language that is coarse. <br /><br />I have been struggling with this for about 4 years now. Each month is a nightmare for me and my family. I often feel very alone.<br /><br />I wasn't blessed with a female support system with no sisters and no mother and in a new town...not many close friends...at least friends that I could ever share this with. <br /><br />I hope as a counselor you will take this challenge and maybe turn it into a grander thing that could help many of us silent sufferers who want to hold to our faith and yet need to share some pretty rough things.<br /><br />I feel for you and empathize for the "good person/bad person" comparison. I feel I am an integrated person who has bad days. It also makes me feel badly that one side of me is less accepted that another, although I understand my family's feelings. <br /><br />My husband is mostly supportive. He struggles because he takes things very hard when I am struggling. <br /><br />I often just say, "I just need you to listen to me..." He will hear the first irritated sentence and then he shuts down. I understand the limitations for him. That's why I am seeking female support in an LDS forum. <br /><br />Hope this continues on as a place to share.<br /><br />AnnieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-41018008246099760442013-06-01T23:52:34.974-07:002013-06-01T23:52:34.974-07:00Thanks for your post. I also have PMDD. When I rea...Thanks for your post. I also have PMDD. When I realised what it was, my husband joked about me always being a high achiever (only 5% of women affected). I also found that the Mirena made mine a lot worse, although it hadn't when I used one a few years ago. What has helped me the most is a combination of B vitamins (mostly B6) that I have prescribed by my naturopath. I'm a different woman. Good luck sorting it out.Kristinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-73410215654839561182013-03-03T11:21:07.239-08:002013-03-03T11:21:07.239-08:00I just found your blog via Pinterest and reading t...I just found your blog via Pinterest and reading this is what I needed. I've been struggling with those same thoughts this weekend. Usually I have them around my period or ovulation. I want to find a doctor thanks to this post and the comments. Thank you. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14218220222333466283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-40654251851065126512013-01-19T15:00:52.264-08:002013-01-19T15:00:52.264-08:00Oh, and by the way, on a non-PMDD related note: I ...Oh, and by the way, on a non-PMDD related note: I got a Mirena about 2-1/2 years ago, and my symptoms (depression) started coming back, so I had it removed. I now have a non-hormonal copper IUD, and I'm doing much better. Marci Dormanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09583560407225170829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-51374018062010041092013-01-19T14:58:58.253-08:002013-01-19T14:58:58.253-08:00I was diagnosed with PMDD about 5 years ago, a yea...I was diagnosed with PMDD about 5 years ago, a year after the symptoms started. I've "attacked" this issue from every angle: physical, emotional, spiritual. I've been on various SSRI's, gone to therapy (Cognitive-Behavior and Talk), taken classes on depression, focused on exercise and diet, changed things in my spiritual life, taken up meditation and yoga, and read extensively on hormones, stress, and mental health. I have seen more doctors than I can count, and counseled with my brother, who is a psychiatrist who has treated women with PMDD.<br /><br />Here is what has helped me the most:<br /><br />1) Keep track of your moods. It is critical to be aware of the condition and what it can do to your thoughts, beliefs, and feelings. Since the symptoms of PMDD are cyclical and can come on gradually, I would often forget that I had PMDD, and instead believed my negative feelings were "real" with causes outside myself. Thus I began to see serious "problems" in my marriage, my family, my life choices, etc. I considered divorce, suicide, and running away. Suddenly, my period would start and it was like waking from a nightmare: I felt like myself again; I was glad to be alive, loved my husband, loved my daughters, and felt horrified that I would consider leaving them. Keeping track of my symptoms helped me keep my feelings in perspective. I'm not one to believe that feelings should be completely discounted (there's usually some kind of basis or trigger), but it's helpful to look at a chart and see: "Okay, last month and the month before that and the month before that on this same day in my cycle, I felt like my marriage was falling apart and my husband hated me and that I didn't feel anything for him anymore and felt completely despondent and depressed. And two days later, it was fine again. Maybe I will try to keep that in mind."<br /><br />Here are two very useful tools to keep track of symptoms: <br />A PDF chart from Facts for Health to track PMDD specific symptoms: www.pmdd.factsforhealth.org/drsp/drsp_month.pdf<br />Optimism: a mood tracking app, not specifically for PMDD, but you can manually alter it to fit your needs. It's also online as well: Findingoptimism.com<br /><br />2) A book called, The Triple Whammy Disorder, by David Edelberg. Very good, despite the dumb title. It approaches the issue from three sides: seratonin, stress, and lifestyle and how those three can combine to positive or negative effect. <br /><br />3) I highly recommend trying medication, and sticking with it until you find one that works (this can be a long process). I tried for a long time to "do it myself" through lifestyle changes (diet, sleep, sun, exercise, spirituality, etc), to no avail. Although all of those are vital to achieving and maintaining good mental health, it can be nearly impossible to find the motivation and energy to do them if things are really bad, which just made me feel like a failure--adding to my depression. It was important for me to recognize that I needed outside help to get me to where I felt good enough to be able to help myself through other means (lifestyle changes like good health, positive thinking, stress-reduction, etc). But none of that would have been possible for me unless I'd taken medication first. <br /><br />4) Left untreated, PMDD can get worse. At first, I only experienced 3-4 "bad days", more what you'd think of as an intense form of PMS. It eventually turned into 2-3 weeks, leaving me feeling really good only while on my period and a for a few days after.<br /><br />I know this was a long message, especially from a stranger, but it's not talked about much, and I was alone in it for a long time and VERY confused. Marci Dormanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09583560407225170829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-6256524153808908512012-10-03T10:29:16.313-07:002012-10-03T10:29:16.313-07:00Thanks for your honesty Lauren, it's funny tha...Thanks for your honesty Lauren, it's funny that as a therapist (or me, as a nurse) we see everyday people who have symptoms/illnesses/etc yet we never expect any of it to apply to ourselves. I hope you have found something that works for you! Bethanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05632317660969818672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-37028736891101198752012-09-25T09:19:55.536-07:002012-09-25T09:19:55.536-07:00Hi! I found your blog through Pinterest. good post...Hi! I found your blog through Pinterest. good post on FHE with toddlers. Just wanted to throw this out there: Have you considered having your Mirena removed? In a very small percentage of women, it can cause major anxiety. It did with me! I had ALL the same symptoms you described. My doctor didn't think the Mirena was the problem because the hormone dosage is so small, but as soon as I had it removed and the extra progesterone left my system, I was a new woman.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14192383567301834977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-27053554711154416052012-09-25T09:19:35.964-07:002012-09-25T09:19:35.964-07:00Hi! I found your blog through Pinterest. good post...Hi! I found your blog through Pinterest. good post on FHE with toddlers. Just wanted to throw this out there: Have you considered having your Mirena removed? In a very small percentage of women, it can cause major anxiety. It did with me! I had ALL the same symptoms you described. My doctor didn't think the Mirena was the problem because the hormone dosage is so small, but as soon as I had it removed and the extra progesterone left my system, I was a new woman.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14192383567301834977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-44852338870998923372012-08-30T22:01:46.743-07:002012-08-30T22:01:46.743-07:00I have horrible pmdd. I have seen several doctors...I have horrible pmdd. I have seen several doctors about it and they all wanted to put me on an anti-depressant like zoloft as well, but i didn't want to go on an anti-depressant because I'm generally a really happy person. Just not 7-10 days prior to my period - during that time my mood fluctuates quite a bit. I have crying fits, extreme depression over absolutely nothing, and it just seems like the end of the world. Even when I would tell myself - it's just because you're going to start your period, it wouldn't matter - it's still how I felt. I have found a couple of things to help a lot. Yes, working out (running and yoga) almost daily seem to keep me generally feeling great, but I started taking St. Johns Wort and it helped me a lot. It didn't help right away - i had to give it about a month or two, but then i just started feeling generally level and good. I still have pmdd but my symptoms are not as extreme as they were before. I take almost double what you are supposed to take though. If you do research there's an amount that you shouldn't exceed, and i am pretty much at that point. My doctor also prescribed me a low dosage of xanax for anxiety before my period. I realized that I usually get the depression and craziness when I am overwhelmed or upset about something, so if i feel something like that coming on I will take half of the pill (i don't even take the full amount the dr prescribed) I don't take it regularly because it's easy to get dependent on. I just keep it in my purse in case I feel it coming on before my period. i hope this helps! I definitely recommend the st. johns wort but check with your doctor first!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-88237768252775207082012-07-29T20:47:06.567-07:002012-07-29T20:47:06.567-07:00Hi Lauren,
Enjoyed your post on your feelings and...Hi Lauren,<br /> Enjoyed your post on your feelings and fears. As a 30 yr veteran of PMDD I think I can speak to you about it, from my experience. First of all PMDD is not mental illness. It is hormonal, ( a physical result from a physical output) and it has always bothered me when people lump it into that catagory. I have worked with three wonderful & understanding doctors over these years. Ask Carly what I have suffered with. I too started out with Zoloft, but after feeling "foggy" for years my new female doc switched me to Lexapro. IT changed my everyday living...really! I just recently had a hysterectomy...and my doctor removed my ovaries as well, check into what those little "girls" can do to you! they are a huge factor in hormones and your physical and emotional well being. I now know what being "normal" is supposed to feel like. One word of caution. NEVER let anyone use your condition to blame you for THIER behavior. Trust your instincts and learn to defend yourself when you know better. Anyone that truly loves you would never use it to hurt you. You will go through enough living with this "condition" without having people use it against you. That is just cruel and selfish. Good luck darlin. finding the right meds for you will make all the difference in the world. Never feel ashamed. This is not your fault. I'm so glad you went for help...life is good! Even with this nasty little intruder. ;) Again, best of luck!Guyannnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-5708936892548021152012-07-29T19:40:32.789-07:002012-07-29T19:40:32.789-07:00Lauren,
I just want to say you are awesome. Just s...Lauren,<br />I just want to say you are awesome. Just sharing this could save someone's life. I know you were prompted to share this message, one I needed to hear. Thanks for being so brave, open, and honest.Chelseahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12799494841663201861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-13408153068148176312012-07-29T19:06:37.022-07:002012-07-29T19:06:37.022-07:00It has been very tough, but the lessons we have le...It has been very tough, but the lessons we have learned and continue to learn about mental illness should be shared. So much happiness, time, peace and strong relationships can be lost without an understanding of mental illness. When I see the signs in others around me it is so hard to contain my feelings of, "No! Don't let this ruin your life and the lives around you!", but I do not think that would instill trust in my judgement. It is hard to get around the shame and misunderstanding surrounding mental illness that others have to talk to them freely. However, we must continue to educate each other in any way we can. I love you, sweetheart!Maria Bonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11847637326599924232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-41883390300307456642012-07-29T17:38:11.683-07:002012-07-29T17:38:11.683-07:00Thanks for sharing this. From what I have been to...Thanks for sharing this. From what I have been told my mom's mom had terrible PMS. My mom had PMS and I have it now, too. Not just the bloating and "ugh, why do I have to be a woman?", but the anger, anxiety...a lot of what you described. I totally related to what you said. <br /><br />My dad encouraged my mom to see a doctor about getting medication and she didn't want to. She talked to her dad about it (my grandma had passed away from breast cancer at this point). She was concerned about "being medicated" and he said, "listen to your husband". My grandpa went through a lot for many years with my grandma. My mom tells me about this just to let me know and for me to be aware so that if there ever is a time I feel that I need the help of medicine that it has also run in my family..... <br /><br />Anyway, thanks again for sharing!Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15819262207910764454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-966046286174764157.post-1329379652671778002012-07-29T17:34:37.306-07:002012-07-29T17:34:37.306-07:00I had a similar experience when I started taking c...I had a similar experience when I started taking citalopram when I was pregnant with Hailey. It was so humbling to realize that I needed help like that. I'm glad it is working for you! There was a lot of withdrawl symptoms when I went off of citalopram though--have you researched that with zoloft? maybe you're on a low enough dose that there won't be any problems?Tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04922188598492672531noreply@blogger.com